Divorces are tough on everyone involved; there’s no question about that. Often, couples have “bad blood” between one another throughout the divorce process which makes the process quite difficult. However, many couples find that putting their differences aside, and engaging in a peaceful divorce mediation makes a huge difference.
From how long the process takes, to how they feel when it’s all said and done. Divorce is tough, but it doesn’t have to be completely miserable unless you both work to make it that way. By coming together one last time, a couple avoids that long, drawn-out, expensive fight that a divorce can become.
Peaceful Divorce Mediation: Is it Effective?… Is it Possible?
Understanding mediation
Divorce mediation is a term for a meeting with a neutral third party to reach a solution that suits you both. Surprisingly, this type of third party is not limited to a divorce. As a matter of fact, plenty of legal battles call for mediation. The mediator’s job is to take into account the law, the facts, the wants of both parties— and help everyone come to a common decision.
When it comes to divorce specifically, a mediator helps you communicate
Your mediator will act as a referee, and will allow you both to express what you want and need without interruption. They will work to clear up confusion, and find a resolution that suits you both. Ultimately, if you need a mediator— you are deciding who gets what when it comes to assets and debts. A mediator will help you hash this out, but they differ from the court.
Mediation differs from court and arbitration in a couple aspects
First, mediators do not have the power of a judge, so they do not “decide” the case. Instead, as stated above, they help navigate the spouses issues and come up with a solution that benefits both parties. Second, mediation resolutions are not binding. Instead, both parties come to a conclusion before court or, often, reach an agreement without going to court.
One benefit of divorce mediation is the lowered costs. Typically, litigation is more expensive due to disagreements and a lack of understanding, which then leads to a longer trial. If you’re willing to seek a mediator, you will likely save money and time when you head to court.
Do you need an attorney for mediation?
It’s important to be aware that a mediator may not provide legal advice. However, you can have your lawyer with you during mediation to keep things clear, which is highly recommended. Your attorney will help council you on legal aspects of the decisions in mediation so that you can move forward quickly, easily, and cohesively.
